2015/11/16

OUTFIT: Hate comments and granny clothes


thats a good question. I actually got that one via Instagram: Hate comments, a win for both sides, I guess- people can laugh at my long coats and culottes and I can laugh at people who say mean things on the internet. But to be honest, some of them went too far. Instagram upsets me daily a bit, not only because the likes go down, but because the comments are rude and body image is just not a topic I want to discuss on a public forum. Not only "granny clothes" or "damn ugly legs"- its the fact that everyone reads about this and people might accidentally try to fit in by listening to that stupidity. Just don't do this. Comments are comments, yet they are no communication. They shouldn't affect you in any way. If you load up something, do it because you like it, not because someone else likes it. 
Sometimes, I just want to take those people, put them in a cave without internet and let them abuse each other verbally, so they learn. But a close look at their profiles teaches me that there is nothing else in their lives than trying to hurt strangers. And this should not get attention. 







Coat: Shein, Trousers: Monki, Top, Bag: &otherstories, Shoes: ZARA
PICTURES BY ANAISANAIS.de

26 comments:

  1. So sorry to hear that you have to deal with those types of comments, because I personally am obsessed with your style! I always tell myself that internet bullies (essentially what they are!) have low self-esteem and need to say those things to fill some kind of void in their life. They have issues, while you are happy being yourself. <3

    http://splitneedles.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you for your kindness sheila, its such a pleasure to read that there are also the absolute counterparts - people who tell people just what they like about them (: you really brighten up my day! ❤

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  2. I do not understand why are people so rude sometimes. Few weeks ago I wrote an article about statements that people used to tell me like: "why are you always wearing black and white combination, it is boring and you are young, you should wear more colors!" or "this skirt looks like you had stolen it from your grandmother" etc. I really do not understand. People should wear what they like and in what they feel comfortable. You do not deserve such unpleasant comment. It is not nice. I know it is hard but you should not care about them because you look perfect in everything and I personally love your style! Keep doing what you doing, cuz you are amazing person ♥
    http://feelikeunicorn.blogspot.sk/

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    1. your style is fabulous! you're basically wearing the best colors and if I was your age and already so wise, I would not be ashamed of all those aztec patterns I covered my body in. Seriously, just be yourself. You are very unique and gifted ♥♥♥

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  3. Also ich finde deinen Style super <3
    Aber du hast so recht....Diese Kommentare sind nur sinnlos und diese Menschen haben nichts besseres zu tun ....und pushen so wahrscheinlich ihr Ego ;)

    Liebe Grüße
    Dani

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    http://petitefabeli.blogspot.de/

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    1. word, Dani :) manchmal muss man sich als Frau eingestehen, dass man es mit seinem Körper anscheinend jedem recht machen muss. oder seinem aussehen generell. ich hoffe das hat mal ein ende, mein freund bekommt ja auch keine haterkommentare wegen seines Körpers :D

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  4. You are beautiful, stylish, and so inspiring. Don't listen to the haters, they're just trying to feel better about themselves. You rock!

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    1. thank you Indy, you're lovely!❤

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  5. I really like your shoes from zara.
    With kind regards,
    Vanessa
    MademoisellePinette

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  6. deine Outfits gefallen mir immer! und das obwohl ich selbst einen ganz anderen Stil trage. Leute, die fiese Kommentare schreiben, haben wahrscheinlich sonst keine Beschäftigung im Leben.
    Mach weiter so! :)
    Alles Liebe von http://rndmmemories.blogspot.de/

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    1. danke für deine lieben Worte, Tina (: http://petitefabeli.blogspot.de/search/label/fashion

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  7. Haters are going to hate no matter what you do, so like Taylor Swift says, shake it off!
    I love how the long coat perfectly suits the culottes! You look amazing, never forget it ;)

    Maë - www.blackhairblackdress.com

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    1. the most clever quote of the pop history :D

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  8. loove that coat, such a fab colour <3

    Made In The 1990's

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  9. This outfit is so pretty !!

    xoxo ❤
    Watermelon Clouds

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    1. thank you dear fatima (:

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  10. Some people are stupid. You're pretty and inspiring and I love your style. And anyway you're you and that's all that matters. Don't listen to the useless haters :-)
    xx

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    1. oh clara that is such a lovely comment. it really made my day ❤

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  11. du siehst super aus!

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